We love our friends, and it's hard to tell them that we think they are doing something wrong. But it's our job as friends to call them out when they are being abusive, after all, it reflects who WE are if we continue to hang out with them. It's not easy to tell your friend that you think they are being abusive to their bf or gf, here are some tips to help the process go smoother:
*If you feel safe doing so, ask your friend how they feel and let them know you're concerned.
*Encourage your friend to talk to a counselor or an adult they trust for help. Be there for them when they reach out for help.
*Don't cut off your friend. Listen to them and help them clarify their feelings.
*Encourage them to be honest.
*Understand that abuse is a choice and don't get stuck in the middle.
*Don't encourage or make jokes about abuse. You want to be a part of the solution, not the problem.
Yeah, it's hard to tell your friend that they are being abusive, but it's even harder to stand by and watch it happen. Don't be a bystander, it's just not a good look on anyone.
Still having a hard time breaking the ice? Need some more advice or helpful hints?Contact the National Dating Abuse Helpline at www.loveisrespect.org and at 1-866-331-9474 (1-866-331-8453 TTY)
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